take a little bit of this, put it with a little of that

saw this in another place and thought maybe, just maybe someone -some where could use this besides me....


What we see is who we are.
written by Michael Berg

When we are in a good place, we see goodness all around us. When we are in a bad place, we see darkness. We might think we’re picking up these flaws in others because we are smarter or better. But the deeper truth is our judgments are merely an indication of where we are at spiritually.

Kabbalah teaches that within everything in this world can be found good and bad aspects. We choose - consciously or unconsciously - which part we wish to see. That choice is a reflection of who we are.

When we meet someone for the first time, we can focus on their positive or negative qualities. The direction we go in is a choice we are making. The same goes for new situations. Obviously there are times we need to discern the pros and cons of people or situations because it affects our well-being. That’s part of life. But what I am talking about is instances when our opinions have no practical influence on our lives. It’s just our view of the world and the people we see in it.
In addition to indicating where we are at, there is an exchange of energy when we judge someone. Kabbalah explains that focusing on someone’s negativity actually brings that energy into our lives! Certainly, no one wants to consciously bring negativity into our lives, which is the whole concept - we are unaware.

This month, the lesson for us is twofold. First, be aware of this concept: what I see is what I am. Develop within yourself the proactive ability to focus only on the good in people or situations. Second, know that by seeking out the positive in others and in all aspects of life, you are awakening – and strengthening - that goodness inside of you.